Trans Wellbeing Collective

Connect, Heal, Grow

 Meaningful representation and facilitated community

Connect, Heal, Grow 

Meaningful representation and facilitated community

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Join in June

Launching in July. Initial spaces limited

Who this space is for

 This is for you if...

  1. You are trans, nonbinary, gender diverse, or gender questioning
    • Even if you don't use the word trans for yourself, you are 'trans enough'.
    • Whether you are very freshly grappling with what it means to be trans, or you have been on this path for decades.
  2. You want to connect with community. 
  3. You’re open to sharing your presence, questions, and reflections, so that other people may benefit from the representation you bring into their lives.
Quote by Marianne Williamson: “As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.   As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

Why We Need Community

It can be hard to recognise how much we need community. Especially if we’ve never really had it. 

When something’s been missing for a long time, it’s difficult to name. If we haven’t experienced it, we don’t know what we’re missing, or how different life could feel, both emotionally and practically, in our daily lives and in the way we see ourselves.

We are meant to live in community, but it's not always easy to find (or create) these days. 

 For trans people, the gifts of community are immeasurable. 

Community is protection. When we have community, we are more resilient to the aspects of this world that might harm us. 

Community is our remedy. When we have been impacted living in a cis-normative culture, community is how we find the safety, affirmation, and representation that is missing in the rest of our lives. 

Community is soothing. When we are hurting, we can reach out to community for support, a pep talk, inspiration, and for a sanctuary. 

Community is healing. When we have absorbed messages that our trans-ness is abnormal, inadequate, undesirable, unhealthy, or an inconvenience, then we start to believe these things. When we have internalised these messages, being in community is a pathway to healing that can set us free in ways we didn't know we needed. 

Everyone needs community.

 

Why We Need Community

It can be hard to recognise how much we need community. Especially if we’ve never really had it. 

When something’s been missing for a long time, it’s difficult to name. If we haven’t experienced it, we don’t know what we’re missing, or how different life could feel, both emotionally and practically, in our daily lives and in the way we see ourselves.

We are meant to live in community, but it's not always easy to find (or create) these days. 

 For trans people, the gifts of community are immeasurable. 

Community is protection. When we have community, we are more resilient to the aspects of this world that might harm us. 

Community is our remedy. When we have been impacted living in a cis-normative culture, community is how we find the safety, affirmation, and representation that is missing in the rest of our lives. 

Community is soothing. When we are hurting, we can reach out to community for support, a pep talk, inspiration, and for a sanctuary. 

Community is healing. When we have absorbed messages that our trans-ness is abnormal, inadequate, undesirable, unhealthy, or an inconvenience, then we start to believe these things. When we have internalised these messages, being in community is a pathway to healing that can set us free in ways we didn't know we needed. 

Everyone needs community.

 

How We Heal

Every component of the community is designed to offer three core healing elements...

1. Meaningful Representation

See important parts of yourself reflected in the world around you.

Representation allows us to recognise ourselves and find language for our own experiences.

It allows us to feel that we belong in this world.

2. Authentic Connection

Be in relationships that allow you to feel like more like yourself. 

Whether we’re sharing or listening, authentic connection allows us to hear ourselves, and hear something of ourselves in others. It reveals us to ourselves.

3. Therapeutic Learning

Get insights and strategies to help you heal and navigate the world with more ease and enjoyment.

Some concepts offer clarity. Some strategies make things easier. Some truths bring relief.

You don’t have to figure it all out alone.

Core Community Offerings

Below are the core components of the community offering.

These will be expanded and adjusted over time to suit the community.

Click each for info ↓

Pricing

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Frequently Asked Questions

A Note from Ari

This community is the culmination of many years of experience as a psychotherapist, as a trans person, as a friend, a client, a parent, and a teacher.

Over time, I have had the privilege of hearing deeply personal stories about navigating the world as a trans person—stories about internal experiences, relationships with ones bodies, discomfort, euphoria, shame, and the wide range of emotions that come with being trans. While each person’s journey is unique, I began to notice recurring themes and patterns.

I often found myself wishing my clients could hear each other’s experiences, knowing how validating and affirming it would be for them to connect with others who shared similar struggles. I could see how powerful that mutual support could be.

As I reflected on my work, I also thought a lot about the importance of representation. When I speak of “representation,” I mean the ability to see experiences that resonate with your own—experiences that help you understand yourself and your place in the world.

For me, one of the most profound realisations came when I recognised how difficult it was for me to envision a future for myself. This feeling, which I’ve come to understand is not unique, was impacting my daily life. I found myself avoiding simple tasks like going to the dentist or investing in my career because I couldn’t imagine a future for myself. I lived in the present moment, which at times was helpful, but it also meant missing opportunities and neglecting self-care.

It wasn’t until I encountered the representation of trans elders—people who had lived rich, full lives and integrated their trans identity in a way that was just one part of a much larger story—that I felt a shift. Seeing these individuals who were more secure, wise, and grounded in their trans experience was like finding a missing puzzle piece. I began to feel a deeper sense of connection, not just to the trans community, but to time itself—feeling more grounded in my own past, present, and future.

This process led me to realise that internalised transphobia is at the core of so many of these challenges. While “internalised cisnormativity” might be a more accurate term, I find that "internalised transphobia" is more accessible and captures the essence of the struggle. This community is dedicated to addressing that internalised transphobia, and creating a space where trans people can heal, connect, and embrace their authentic selves.

The Trans Wellbeing Collective  has been many years in the making—it's the culmination of all the work I've done as a psychotherapist and group facilitator with trans clients and my deep reflections on the needs of the trans community.

At the heart of our community is the belief that meaningful, diverse, and consistent representation is essential for healing. That’s why every component of The Trans Wellbeing Collective is designed with this principle in mind. From curated media that reflects a wide range of trans experiences to facilitated events and educational resources, everything we offer is built to ensure that our members can see themselves represented in ways that feel real, relatable, and affirming.

By offering a space that centers representation in its many forms, we aim to help each person find a sense of belonging and self-acceptance, while also building the confidence to navigate the world from a place of inner peace and empowerment.