Who this space is for
 This is for you if...
- You are trans, nonbinary, gender diverse, or gender questioning
- Even if you don't use the word trans for yourself, you are 'trans enough'.
- Whether you are very freshly grappling with what it means to be trans, or you have been on this path for decades.
- You want to connect with community.Â
- Youâre open to sharing your presence, questions, and reflections, so that other people may benefit from the representation you bring into their lives.

How We Heal
Every component of the community is designed to offer three core healing elements...

1. Meaningful Representation
See important parts of yourself reflected in the world around you.
Representation allows us to recognise ourselves and find language for our own experiences.
It allows us to feel that we belong in this world.

2. Authentic Connection
Be in relationships that allow you to feel like more like yourself.Â
Whether weâre sharing or listening, authentic connection allows us to hear ourselves, and hear something of ourselves in others. It reveals us to ourselves.

3. Therapeutic Learning
Get insights and strategies to help you heal and navigate the world with more ease and enjoyment.
Some concepts offer clarity. Some strategies make things easier. Some truths bring relief.
You donât have to figure it all out alone.
Core Community Offerings
Below are the core components of the community offering.
These will be expanded and adjusted over time to suit the community.
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đ§ 'Ask Ari' Q&A
đ Learning Modules
đ¤ Guest Experts & Elders
đŹ Community Threads
đ Sharing Circles
Pricing
If you find yourself disappointed by the membership price because it is not accessible for you, but you feel this community is right for you, please reach out to us at [email protected]Â
We can talk about what would make this possible for you, while balancing providing a sustainable service to our members.Â
Financial Transparency
Your membership fee makes it possible for us to offer a high-standard, sustainable, and supportive service. We believe in transparency about how your contributions are used to support the work and care behind the scenes.
We do not receive any government or grant funding. This project is entirely supported by membership, which means weâre accountable only to you, the community. That gives us the freedom to stay values-aligned and responsive to changing needs.
Hereâs where your membership fee goes:
People & Facilitation
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Guest Speakers: We are fortunate to have professional and community networks that connect us with some pretty amazing people. We pay or guests well, acknowledging their lived expertise, professional experience, and the energy and effort they bring to our community.
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Facilitators:Â Sharing circles are facilitated by very experienced group facilitators. To honour their skills and presence, we make sure they are also well paid.
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Community Moderators/Stewards:Â As we grow, we will be hiring support for community moderation. These will be the people you feel held by in the discussion space, who will support people to connect with each other, post resources, help people find what they need, and moderate any discussions that need guidance, creating safety and support for the community.Â
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Community Host (Ari): Your membership enables me to continue doing this work in a focused and sustainable way, so that I can continue to do this work. The more the community grows, the more time, thought, and care Iâm able to dedicate â including expanding support, resources, and offerings.
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Software & Platform Fees
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Community Platform:We use Circle's Business plan â the online equivalent of having a welcoming, well-run venue space.
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Event Tools:Â Zoom and scheduling tools help us run live events smoothly.
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Content Production:Â Tools for editing recordings, creating learning modules, and producing private podcast feeds from the Q&As.
Along with several other tools, to make this community function smoothly and beautifully. Think of this as our online âvenueâ â a space thatâs clean, reliable, and built to foster connection.
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Learning & Community Development
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Professional Consultation:Â We seek input from specialists (e.g. disability access, trauma-informed care, neurodivergence) to help shape a more inclusive space.
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Facilitator & Moderator Training:Â We invest in training for facilitators, moderators, and myself to helps us offer higher-quality support and safer group experiences.
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Honorariums:Â When community members bring unique experiences, expertise and skills, and are willing to create events, content or resources, we will offer financial recognition and support where we can.
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Equity, Stability & Growth
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Subsidy & Scholarship Fund:Â As we grow, weâll set aside funds to support those unable to afford full membership.
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Insurance:Â We maintain professional indemnity insurance to ensure that the community is responsibly held and legally protected.
- Sustainability Planning:Â Weâre not looking to burn out. Your membership helps build long-term stability for everyone involved â from community facilitators to future contributors.
- Fair Pay for Lived & Professional Expertise:Â We aim to pay fairly, not just minimally â recognising the labour, energy, and insight it takes to hold space and lead in this community.
- Reinvestment in Community:Â As the community grows, any surplus will be reinvested back into member-led initiatives, new programming, or expanding access through subsidised tiers.
Frequently Asked Questions
Am I Trans Enough?
Does this community support healing internalised transphobia?
Whatâs the difference between this and therapy?
How do I join?
In the Q&A, can I ask personal questions?
How do the small group sharing circles work?
What days and times are events held?
Can I participate anonymously?
What if I miss an event?
Can I cancel my membership at any time?
What are the Community Guidelines?
A Note from Ari

This community is the culmination of many years of experience as a psychotherapist, as a trans person, as a friend, a client, a parent, and a teacher.
Over time, I have had the privilege of hearing deeply personal stories about navigating the world as a trans personâstories about internal experiences, relationships with ones bodies, discomfort, euphoria, shame, and the wide range of emotions that come with being trans. While each personâs journey is unique, I began to notice recurring themes and patterns.
I often found myself wishing my clients could hear each otherâs experiences, knowing how validating and affirming it would be for them to connect with others who shared similar struggles. I could see how powerful that mutual support could be.
As I reflected on my work, I also thought a lot about the importance of representation. When I speak of ârepresentation,â I mean the ability to see experiences that resonate with your ownâexperiences that help you understand yourself and your place in the world.
For me, one of the most profound realisations came when I recognised how difficult it was for me to envision a future for myself. This feeling, which Iâve come to understand is not unique, was impacting my daily life. I found myself avoiding simple tasks like going to the dentist or investing in my career because I couldnât imagine a future for myself. I lived in the present moment, which at times was helpful, but it also meant missing opportunities and neglecting self-care.
It wasnât until I encountered the representation of trans eldersâpeople who had lived rich, full lives and integrated their trans identity in a way that was just one part of a much larger storyâthat I felt a shift. Seeing these individuals who were more secure, wise, and grounded in their trans experience was like finding a missing puzzle piece. I began to feel a deeper sense of connection, not just to the trans community, but to time itselfâfeeling more grounded in my own past, present, and future.
This process led me to realise that internalised transphobia is at the core of so many of these challenges. While âinternalised cisnormativityâ might be a more accurate term, I find that "internalised transphobia" is more accessible and captures the essence of the struggle. This community is dedicated to addressing that internalised transphobia, and creating a space where trans people can heal, connect, and embrace their authentic selves.
The Trans Wellbeing Collective  has been many years in the makingâit's the culmination of all the work I've done as a psychotherapist and group facilitator with trans clients and my deep reflections on the needs of the trans community.
At the heart of our community is the belief that meaningful, diverse, and consistent representation is essential for healing. Thatâs why every component of The Trans Wellbeing Collective is designed with this principle in mind. From curated media that reflects a wide range of trans experiences to facilitated events and educational resources, everything we offer is built to ensure that our members can see themselves represented in ways that feel real, relatable, and affirming.
By offering a space that centers representation in its many forms, we aim to help each person find a sense of belonging and self-acceptance, while also building the confidence to navigate the world from a place of inner peace and empowerment.